There’s a general saying that life begins at 40 but if you
really want to have a very fruitful and enjoyable lifestyle by that age then
your work must start early so that by the time you’re 40, you would’ve attained
a very admirable and respectable status in the society. Starting early will definitely
give you an edge in the struggle, apart from necessary ingredients that are
vital for success, discipline, mental strength, intelligence and hard work, below
are the 3 most important things you must have by the age of 30 in order to live
a harmonious life.
Relationship with God-the
importance of this can never be over emphasized as the saying goes with God all
things are possible, that’s why a very viable and stable relationship with God
should be number 1 on the list. Having God in your life will increase your
zeal, confidence and hard work and that will translate to better things in your
life.
Amazing testimonies of people that found success after having
faith and committing to God are too numerous to mention and can be seen or
heard everywhere. It is highly imperative that as you clock 30, your life
should have an adult perspective about it, put the life of an exuberant 20
something with raging hormones behind you and start living like a responsible
adult and what better to do that if not by committing whole fully to the
Almighty. It will make you calmer as you pursue other goals in life and this
relationship will also serve a guide in your whole activities.
Income-it is compulsory
that you possess a means of livelihood and stop depending on other people for
survival, it is necessary to engage in something productive(instead of sitting
idly and waiting for season 2 of your favourite series)there are million things
to do with very little and the earlier you realize that the better, waiting for
a miracle as regards your dream job isn’t the right way when someone else is
making a good living doing the things you choose to ignore(things you’re better
than him at)
At 30, you shouldn’t beg daddy (or mummy in few cases) for
money to upgrade your wardrobe; instead they should offer you a loan to start
up something. Thousands of graduates continue to roam the streets in search of well-paying
job to no avail while others have seen the light and are making the best use of
their time and earning an income as a result. The point is as you reach this
landmark; make sure you’re productive and useful to yourself, family and the
society at large.
Life partner-“behind every
successful man is a woman” and “behind every successful woman lies a man” I’ve
agreed with this saying since the first time I heard it because I really
believe that to be successful you need someone by your side that really love, cares
and understands you whole heartedly. Over the years, most success stories have
been attributed to having a life partner that was there through thick and thin,
someone that the held the person when he was falling down, inspired the person
when confidence was low, we all need someone to be there for us and as we grow
older we tend to realise the great importance of that.
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